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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:A guy I am seeing keeps telling me lies. Sometimes he lies about things that don't even matter, and I even tell him that if he had told me the truth I wouldn't have cared, yet he still lies. For instance, he and I were laying out at the pool and he was covered in bruises and I asked what happened and he said he got into a fight. Later he told me that he got so drunk at that party that he went around asking people to hit him. I told him that I thought what he did was extremely stupid but that if he had told me the truth in the first place I wouldn't have cared. Then he lies about things that do matter. He told me he wasn't talking to his ex anymore and one morning before he woke up I looked through his phone. I found several text messages saying things like "how was your night baby?" from an 'Adam Cell'. Turns out that he changed his ex's number to say Adam Cell in his phone so I wouldn't find out they were still talking. He says he swears they're just friends and that she calls everyone baby and that she just found out she has cancer and needs someone to talk to but I'm not convinced. Plus, I don't mean to be a jerk but even if she has cancer she needs to lean on her family and other friends for support, not him. I will feel completely heartbroken if I break up with him but my heart breaks every time he lies to me and I feel like I deserve someone who won't make me feel this way. Every time I try to end it he says he loves me and that he wants me to change him. I know I can't change him and that he has to change himself but what do I do? Just tell him it's over and stop talking to him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2009): Trust your heart and your guts on this one. He's lying about everything, you can not trust him. Is he really worth all that?
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