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female
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30-35,
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writes: ok here it goes a big old blurt of worries again lol.ok this dude and me have been on and of since we were 14 and were both 17 turning 18 now.it seems that every so often we get back together then ends ina big to do then the same thing happens again and again,he's a bit of a liar.but when were apart we dont have other realtionships its like we are MENT for eachother,however we are like they say "chalk and Cheese".The Other day he was outside the pub and my mates were out there for a ciggerette and he was just passing with mates Later my mate come up to me and said "craig was just out there but he didnt want me to tell you that he was there?!" That pissed me Right off cos the other nite we were mailing eacother and getting alittle flirty.and another thing he's had sex with one girl and im still a virgin and i have a large labia thingy majiggy but im cool with it ive accsepted it :) but im afraid that if we get back together and we go further when we brake up he's going to go around telling people i have an abnormal vagina and how imbarrasing would that be?!today then i mailed him about the pub incident and he said that he told my mates he was joking an that he did really want to see me and speak to me and that he would send me his new number ina mail but he hasnt yet??wats Goin On.I do really Like him and im almost sure he likes me.???Help Pleae asap.Before i go to deep again.
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reader, garcypher +, writes (29 May 2009):
Only immature people would make jokes about things as personal as that. You should have a good idea of the kind of person he is by now. Don't sleep with him because it might make him happier with you. You should do that only if you want to. But don't fall for any crap he might throw at you. Young fellas will say anything just to get you in bed. But it sounds as if his interests are straying elsewhere anyway. You are too young to be worrying about him. Think of yourself. If it doesn't feel right ditch him. Don't let him think you are his yo yo to be pulled in when he sees fit.
I'm sorry when it seems like someone is taking advantage of another I'm a hardliner.
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