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female
age
30-35,
*ngelWithNoHalo
writes:I have been with my boyfriend on and off for 2 years 3mnths. I finished him recently because we were both under a lot of strain and the constant arguments between us were hassling our work. Two days later, I slept with him. He knew that I love him, but at this space in time, I couldn't handle that arguments, but I miss him. He said that he was happy with this. The night after, two days after sleeping together, I had a night out with some colleagues. In which, I was very drunk and a friend/colleague was also very drunk. We kissed, and nothing more. The next day I told the ex this and he hit the roof! Saying that I'd cheated on him and he was going to kill my colleague. The ex whilst on the phone to a female colleague of mine, told her that we were back together, and now he's decided we're back together. I didn't want this, but I felt guilty for hurting him. Now, my 'boyfriend' keeps being fine with me one minute, and flipping out on me the next! I've told him I can't handle him doing this, and he replied, It's your fault, you made me like this, if you don't like it, then walk away. So I told him I was walking away, to which he started saying he hated me, because he loved me so much and I was being so cruel. He's managed to twist things again so he see's it as we're still together. Am I being selfish? In leaving him, part of me feels suffocated by him, but another part of me is saying that it's my fault he's like this and I deserve all I get. To be clear, when the guy kissed me, I was drunk, he was drunk, and neither of us were in a relationship. I feel awful! Please help, any answers much appreciated, no matter how blunt they may be. Thanks A Lot. xx
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reader, keysha  +, writes (29 May 2009):
 girl!!! life is to short just leave him alone the both of you have out grown the relationship it's time for you and him to move on yeah you will miss him thats life but life is about learning and when you stand in the way of that you start to get stressed out and stress cause's health problems.
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