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writes:Im 19 years old and took a pregnancy test and it was positive. im not ready to have this child nor would my boyfriend but i just found out 2 days ago and not sure when or how to bring it up let alone tell him.what should i do? I am scared that if i talk to him about it and about getting the abortion, he will break up with me. I'm so scared about this cause i love him so much and he loves me.I used birth control, took it everyday and got unlucky i guess. does anyone have a solution?
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reader, SugarCookie +, writes (30 May 2009):
I think that if he loves you and he is not ready to have a baby he wont break up with you over this information. The only way he will end things is if he finds abortion wrong and you still get one, which sadly I would agree with him. I realize it is your body and you would have to be the one to deal with the pregnancy, but it is his baby too. I think that you have to tell him and express how you feel, but what you also have to consider is if he too will want this baby. Infact if he wants this baby you really need to consider having the baby and giving him the rights to it.
( I feel I must say I am anti-abortion and think that if someone wants this child it should have a chance).
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2009): You say he loves you, yet you are scared if you tell him he will dump you? That's not love. It takes two people to make a baby and if he dumps you over this it only shows he's not ready to take responsibility for his actions. He may very well break up with you for it, but if he does then trust me hon, he's not the kind of guy worth chasing after.
You need to tell him, as much to get his input as to see if he's someone worth loving and keeping around. Good luck
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