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*oni_1424
writes:Hello to all...I have a problem, i.e. I love a girls too much. but now she get marriage with someone. she was also loves me. we don't have any physical relationship.As i told you she is married now, and don't have any contact with me. but some where I found by her behaviour that she still love me. I want to maintain my relation with her. I don't know she is thinking about me or not?but I am still thinking about her. I can't forget her.is I have to forget her?... Reply to this Question
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reader, betty_black  +, writes (29 May 2009):
 Its important you cut her out of your life and move on yes. You can't be bogged down with this. She's married and you dont even have contact anymore, so how is it you know she still loves you? She's moved on and its about time you do the same too. Your still young and as the old saying goes, theres plenty more (unmarried) fish in the sea. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2009): I am sorry man but you will have to move on. It is better for you and much healthier if you do this. You will avoid much arguments in the future and many confrontations. There are many more women out there, I know you may not want to let go but if you love her you will let her go. There is very little to gain if you find out if she love you, she is after all , Married.
Good Luck
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reader, NewBeginning  +, writes (29 May 2009):
 man.. there's just one answer.. u need to travel.. get away, stay away and do not keep in touch for a couple of years..
get out.. go to another city.. get a transfer.. u need to restart ur life and forget about her... unless u do this ur going to ruin her life as well as yours..
ur still young mate.. there's enough time to settle down.. u need to experience the world first... mate.. i've been there..
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