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writes:HelloI was away on work this past weekend. My girlfriend went out one night with a mutual guy friend of ours (not worried about that). They ended up bar hopping with some of his friends and going to a party and she stayed out until 5am, which she never does, not even with me. My friend brought her home to make sure she got in safe, so that's good. We live in NYC.My problem is that she got REALLY drunk. And in the past she hasn't made the best decisions while drunk, and I lose some trust in her when she drinks. Because I lose some trust, I checked her phone when I got back. I saw that on that night at around 1 am she called a number that wasn't in her phone (meaning there was no contact name for it. About fifteen minutes later that number called her back. The #s area code is from an area of the country that surprises me, but being in NYC there are people here from everywhere. Each conversation was under a minute long.I CAN'T STOP WONDERING what this phone call was about. Who was she calling? Why at 1 am and while she was so drunk?? Why did the # call her back?? Why hasn't she brought it up to me??I need advice on how to deal with this. I have thought of calling the number and seeing who picks up, but then what? I can't approach her about it because then she would know I snooped on her phone. And before people tell me to stop prying and such, remember that I have cause to not trust her while drunk based on prior experiences. (though she has never cheated on me, as far as I know)....Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2009): I think you are being silly. It could have been as simple as a her meaning to call the cab or pizza place, being drunk and calling the wrong number and the person on the other end wanting to know who was calling so late! Each call was under a minute, let it go. Who cares!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2009): I don't even trust myself when I drink too much! So, I understand what you are saying. We all do very stupid things under the influence!
If you don't want to question her, and you don't want to call the number, My advice to you would be...Let it go! Chalk it up to a drunken phone call in the middle of the night, to someone who returned her phone call. Leave it at that.
If you truly believe she has never cheated on you, you probably have nothing to worry about.
This is just my opinion, and people will most likely disagree...and that's okay!
I hope I have said something that will ease your mind.
Britt
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