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If you are drunk, will your first sexual experience hurt less?

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Question - (29 May 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Just a Quicke Question.

Does The First Time hurt Less If Drunk?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2009):

Being drunk will make you feel less pain in general.

Being drunk may dry you up so you feel more pain.

Just suck it up, realize the chances are high it will hurt, but it wont kill you. Take your time, talk it through with the one you are gonna do it with, and make sure you are wet and not dry (google that if you are unsure what I mean).

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2009):

For the minute or so it he will need to get you popped and opened up, it may hurt less - especially if he's eager or inexperienced himself. On the other hand, being drunk will probably interfere with your natural lubrication and make the whole event more uncomfortable.

For the years you spend looking back on it, it will probably hurt more.

Whether it's the first time or the millionth time alcohol isn't a very good sexual lubricant. ONE drink may help you relax, then have him do what needs to be done.

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A female reader, artistical_bumblebee +, writes (29 May 2009):

artistical_bumblebee agony aunti don't think so if sex is going to hurt its going to hurt.

try lubricants, different condoms, having a bath before so your relaxed.

ultimately sex hurts for everygirl the first time you just have to grin and bare it.

sex for girls on average hurts the first 3 times.

1: uncomfortable/painful

2: barable

3: best thing in the world.

do you really want to not remember your first time?if your that plastered you won't remember it if you used condoms regardless of whether you felt the pain or not.

always hurts, grit your teeth and just get on with it.preferably with someone who will look out for you whilst you do.

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