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anonymous
writes:So I am really good friends with this guy, and he lives about two hours away. We have known each other for eight months, but it is hard to see each other. He is always the one to call me and text me though, and it is usually his idea to hang out. He usually ends up not coming to see me though. I know he doesn't have a car so he needs to get a ride when his mom comes down, but he never calls to tell me he can't make it. He will always apologize though and tell me why he couldn't come. I just can't tell what he wants. Why would he act like he wants to be with me and then flakes out? Then he will sometimes not talk to me for a few weeks and then will start calling me almost every day again. I really like this guy and want to be in a relationship with him, but don't know what to do. I go to visit him sometimes, but half the time he has to reschedule. Last time we talked he told me he loved me and I know I am in love with him. I just can't tell if this guy is playing me or not?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2009): he is throwin major shade here. if he wanted to be with you, he would move mountains and earth. he's not. he's a flake who might have other girls you don't know about, he lives far away and sends mixed signals.
red flag!!! this guy is a waist of time. Dump him, see what he says then, if he can change his ways and make time for you a priority. If he stays the same and blows you off, then baby "he's just not that into you!" Sorry but it's true. If a man truly loves a woman who will due what it takes to be with her, no excuses.
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