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*onely_girl82
writes:I need advise... I've been married for 10 yrs and I just found out my husband was cheating on me. It all started with a time out hoping it would make us stronger, but than I found out he was living with another women for three months and he was also thinking of having a family with her. This lady is divorce twice and has four kids that have two different dads. I am so confused, my husband has come home begging me to forgive him he even had the nerve to tell me that he does not want to lose me but he also thinks he has feelings for her ..after I found out I let him come back home but when ever he wanted to get near me or kiss me it would gross me out but at the same time I wanted to hug him show him that I still love him... I am so confused...what advise can you give me? should I file for divorce or should I give him another chance?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (29 May 2009):
 I would divorce him in a New York minute. He's stalling at the moment, if you ask me. He wants her but he wants you too.
Don't you think you deserve a guy who is JUST yours? I mean do you really want to sahre him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2009): this other woman is still in the picture, he claims to still have feelings for her. but wants some nooky from you (and possibly her). he LIVED with her for 3 months. he had SEX with her for possibly more moths prior to moving in with her. why is he taking you for a fool, why are you letting you. yes, you love him, but are you not mistaking loneliness for love. he is using you, just as he did in the past. he wanted a family with his mistress. 4 kids and a possible 5th with your hubby. come on, this is the financial crunch. we cannot even afford to log on these days yet he wanted to bring another child into his dirty world. please weigh up the pros and cons. have a STD/STI checkup, please. you know where his penis has been all this while, you do not want to catch anything from him .
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