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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:There's this guy and we're close acquaintances. We know each other from school and we used to be friendly(thought he liked me for a while but something came up). He has a gf. A girlfriend that has no feelings for him whatsoever. I think he just realized that cause when he was talking to my friend, he was kinda implying it.Anyway, I still like him (a LOT) and I think that maybe, maybe he might like me too. There's the staring, glancing, fidgeting and all that. But what really ticked me off was when he got mad when I started screaming that I liked/loved one guy. When we were at the party, I kept on saying, loudly, that I loved this other guy and he kept shooting me glances. My friend said that he looked sad and a tad bit (he wasn't bothering to talk to anyone anymore and just kept fiddling with his phone) annoyed.But then I finally admitted that I didn't like the guy and he stared at me for a while before going back to fiddling with his phone. His mood seemed to have lightened.One time, I just randomly started screaming the other guy's name and that I loved him and stuff. And I basically kept on talking about him (the other guy). When he heard me say I loved the other guy, he whipped around to face me and almost tripped. Got all red in the face and looked like he was about to hit something. It was way obvious with the way he walked that he was annoyed.I don't know if he likes me. He knows that I liked/like him. I told him so. At one point, he said that he does like me (not to me). But he told me, personally, that he 'does not like me'.What's the deal with him? He's confusing me. Likes me or not? And what should I do? I've been chasing him for quite some time now and ever since I told him that I liked him, he stopped talking to me. Just glances or, if he thinks I'm not looking, staring. Reply to this Question
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reader, well-help  +, writes (29 May 2009):
 this is basically the same aswhats happened to me onlt the guy i liked made up a packof bullshit about having a gf when he didnt he just said he did so i wouldnt ask him out and whenhe knew i found out the truth a few weeks later we started getting on loads and he started acting interested then he acted like he wasnt when i asked him whyshe been acting diffrent around me like so nice cos he was like always complementing me ect and now hes not speaking to me boys love are a mysterie i wouldnt worry about him, just ask him straight because if you leave it so long like i did just to be disapointed you end up biuldingup alot of feeling for them just to be let down and then its hard to get rid of the feelings it sucks xo
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