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writes:i am 30 years unmarried female, i have never been into any relationship before, but i am doing masturbation from last 6 years due to which i think my vagina is loose, now i am getting married soon will my husband notice it, and will it effect on married life, please tell me i am worried about this...
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reader, summerslady21  +, writes (29 May 2009):
Ok well first of all they say a womens vagina is like a rubber band it will go back to its natural shape. Second don't stress out I think that you're nervous about the wedding it will be fine! This is a day all about you and it will be amazing. 6 years no sex you will be fine. I have three children and my fience has no complants other than getting in is hard sometimes. You will be fine. You're just getting the marriage jitters calm down have fun and enjoy this its all about you honey! Good luck and congratulations!
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (29 May 2009):
 Why would your vagina be loose if you have not had sex for 3 years?! What the hell have you been masturbating with?
If you have only been masturbating with your hands, then your vagina will not be loose at all. If you have been masturbating with a sex toy or vibrator then you may be a little looser than normal however it wont make much of a difference.
I think this is all in your head, you are probably not loose at all. Regular sex is the only real way to become loose down there, and if you say you havent been in a relationship before then it is unlikely you are loose.
Dont worry, your husband wont notice a thing. You will probably feel very tight to him! This wont affect your marriage at all, he will be very happy with you so you have nothing to worry about. Just enjoy yourself!
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reader, Beingblack +, writes (29 May 2009):
 I think you are a little worried about the marriage iteslf, and you are focusing these thoughts on your vagina.
There is no way on earth that your vagina is 'loose'. I am in my forties, and unfortunately have been with many women of all ages before I found 'the one'.
I can safely say that every single woman I have been with has been unique. Some have had many children, some none at all. Not one has been 'loose'.
If your outer lips are a little fleshy, and your pubic mound pronounced, then I envy your man! These are often the traits of an incredibly sexy woman. The outer lips are the only parts which might feel 'moveable'.
The inside of your vagina is what matters, and as long as you can insert your own finger and feel it, you are very normal and have nothing to worry about.
Enjoy your wedding night!
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reader, keepitreal03  +, writes (29 May 2009):
How do u know your loose???? Do u have kids or have many people told u that. After six years of no sex I would think u would have gotten tighter. There's ways to improve that try looking online. But if u are he will be able to tell but not sure if he will be bad for him. But try and improve it before then
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