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writes:Hoping people can help a bit here and thank in advance all who respond. I broke up with my boyfriend six months ago. It was his decision and he asked for no contact so I did as he asked. We have mutual friends. A lot of the guys in our mutual group of friends thought he handled things badly. I have noticed that he is rude to me in front of the guys in our group. Last night he made a nasty remark and a friend(male) put his arm around me because it was quite cutting. I am playing it cool and not responding at all in the hope he will tire of this and stop it. I am puzzled as to why he is still sarcastic. He wanted it ended and I complied. Should I continue ignoring him. Is he doing this because he thinks it makes him look cool. I think it is making him look bad, actually. With the women in our group, he is VERY friendly to them in front of me. That does not bother me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): Whatever he is hoping to achieve, he is showing himself up and you are doing the right thing by not reacting. It is like you are placing a blank sheet of paper and he is painting himself as he really is in front of people. Good that your friends are supporting you when he is horrible. He may have been the one to end it, but you are lucky to be out of it.
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