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I want to know, will I be a bad person if I have sex?

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Question - (2 May 2009) 8 Answers - (Newest, 12 June 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *ina222 writes:

I need help....I am 14 and i have been dating this 17 year old for almost 9 months and we have did oral....And I think im ready for PROtected sex. I want to know will i be a bad person if i do this?

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A female reader, tina222 United States +, writes (12 June 2009):

tina222 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks but we already did have sex

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2009):

You say you've never felt this way about anyone else. How many others can there have been at 14?

Everyone thinks their first real relationship is love. And almost everyone looks back in a few years and thinks they were totally naive at the time.

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A female reader, tina222 United States +, writes (2 May 2009):

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I wasn't asking if I should have sex, i know thtat's my choice and i want to have proteceted sex not unprotected sex. I do love him i have never felt this way for anyone. My bf has meet my mom, dad, basically all my family. No other guy has done this. He is 17 but he isn't pushing me into anyhing. So how does it feel after sex?

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A female reader, tina222 United States +, writes (2 May 2009):

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Thanks to all who help me!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009):

Bad no. Stupid yes.

Satin has said it all beautifully. Read and think.

Why the rush. Wait. Think like the grown up you want to be.

You are sensible - you have posted a question rather than dropping your knickers. Don't do the stupid thing, if he loves you, he will wait. (then also he won't be considered a perv)

Star.x.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009):

This is why older boys shouldn't be dating younger girls. He's the wrong one for you, I guess he's pressuring you. I have no ideal why he dosen't date girls his own age, their older and be more experinced but he goes after a little girl.

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A male reader, SaraGreen United States +, writes (2 May 2009):

You are never a bad person for having sex. Having sex with someone you love is the most fun thing in the world. That being said, if you are not ready then don't rush into it. Make sure it's with someone who you trust and feel comfortable with. You have the rest of your life to have sex, don't rush into things.

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A male reader, malum424 United States +, writes (2 May 2009):

malum424 agony auntNo you will not be a bad person for having sex, but on the same note if you're here asking this then it seems to me that you aren't really ready for sex.The best thing I can tell you is it's your body and don't let anyone pressure you into sex before you are ready.

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