New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

Was I used for sex?

Tagged as: Sex, Troubled relationships<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (2 May 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 2 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

was i used for sex?

I saw this guy in the evenings and usually had sex. It was a bit of a FWB situation.

It went on for a few months. I never really went out much with him or hung out with each others friends. Also, as a girl, you can tell when a guy is into you and i did not get this feeling with this guy.

However, When i talked with him about 'us', he told me he did like me and had feelings for me and that we were bf/gf. When we did spend time together, i would be the one to leave, he would always want me to stay, he would want to cuddle up and watch tv ot talk after sex and would sometimes IM me telling me he missed me.

So what do you think, did he like me? or was i just good sex?

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009):

At first you were using him, and he was using you (meaning of FWB). But it seems as if he did develop some minimal feelings for you over time.

<-- Rate this answer

A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009):

If you are the one driving to his house, having sex with him and then driving all the way home, sounds like it's just an FWB situation where you are putting forth all the effort. You weren't used, you agreed to the situation.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "Was I used for sex?"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0312467999901855!