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It's driving me crazy..all these worries, no that I am not dating!

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Question - (2 May 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *loudysunshine writes:

Hi! So fed up of everything atm. As i said previously, i broke up with my boyf of almost 6 years five months ago and just felt really crappy for about 4 months. I miss the relationship but wouldn't want to go back to my ex boyf, who's moved on anyway. I thought i genuinely found the love of my life in my best guy mate from uni, but he says he's staying with his gf coz he's scared to change anything in his life coz of anxiety. I feel so low, I had worries growing up, but when with my boyf, I could laugh them off now I just worry non-stop, I know its irrational but I cant stop. I've been hurt so much I'm just not attracted to any guys atm, and its driving me crazy. Anyone have any tips or experience of the same sort?

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A female reader, cloudysunshine United Kingdom +, writes (3 May 2009):

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thanks for the advice, think its just that i feel a bit conscious now when i go out on the town lolthanx again tho, im sure ur right :)

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A female reader, mimisoph3 United States +, writes (3 May 2009):

mimisoph3 agony aunti feel the same way..breaking up wit someone makes u feel unwanted and unappriciated but when u are wit someone u have someone to hold,kiss,hug,love but dont feel down and stop worring cuz the more u worry the worse it'll get..this is a great time to call all ur best friends and girl friends out and have a night wit the girls.u never know if u'll meet someone out..p.s dont forget dont look too desperate cuz guys wont come around just have fun loosen up and i'm sure u'll be back in a relationship before u know it :)

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