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writes:ok, well this guy and i have been casual sex buddies for about 7 months now, we talk everyday and meet up as and when we can. He gets jealous if he thinks im seeing other ppl, and even makes up stories about other girls to make me jealous! But when i approach him and ask him if he has feelings for me he says no!! i know being a woman that we are more emotional and can get attached, as we have been sleeping together for 7 months that i do have feeling for him. But do you think he has feeling for me...? why the jealous remarks...? any ideas...?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (3 May 2009):
Oh so you DO want more... oh dear.
Going from sex buddies to a relationship very very very rarely works.
You just have to come clean with him.
Tell him you have feelings for him and you want more than this. If he says yeah then great. If he says "Well why do we need a label?" or anything else then you are screwed.
If he doesn't want more then you have to back away and get over him.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe thing is i do have feelings for him and would love for him to feel the same! What should i do next...?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe thing is i do have feelings for him and would love for him to feel the same! What should i do next...?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): um... well... maybe he does have feelings for you and is trying to hide or pretend he doesn't?
so where does the sex end and the emotion kick in? or the other way round - sigh. its just sex, no emotions involved.
what do you want out of this e.g. do you want really him fully as a partner - or just a glorified vibe?
Star.x.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (2 May 2009):
Well his idea of a casual sex buddy relationship is that HE swans about having lots and lots of sex with super models... while you sit around the house in lingerie waiting for him to come round.
He's being jealous because he can't deal with the fact that you are getting sex and dealing with this whole friends with benefits relationship... and he's left with nothing and isn't being the amazing romeo that he thought he'd be.
He probably doesn't have feelings for you, but secretly wishes that you would have feelings for you so he could feel powerful and manly.
Use him for your fun, but you might want to question if he's mature enough to handle it. You don't want to hurt the poor guy.
Luckily for you, you don't have to actually like him, or think much of him to have fun in the bedroom with him. So see him for sex and leave it at that.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, angel summer +, writes (2 May 2009):
 i think he does have feeling for u by the way he is acting i just think like most males hes scared of commitment i think u should tell him that u have got feelings for him and if he doesnt like it he knows the way to go obviously ur going to have feelings after 7 months he needs to understand this i think u 2 should sit down and have a long talk bout things good luck i hope all works out for u xxx
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