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36-40,
*luvme0723
writes:I feel really self conscious when me and my bf have sex when I'm on top. I'm 5 feet even and about 130 pounds. I'm not fat, just curvy. I feel like when I'm on top he's sees everything moving, and finds it unattractive so I try not to make eye contact. Reply to this Question
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reader, angel summer  +, writes (2 May 2009):
 i used to feel like u do but if he wasnt happy with the way u r he wud not want u on top or he would suggest turning the light off he will like u for u it doesnt matter what u look like when ur in a lovin relationship and as u sed ur not fat just curvy and curvy is best these days dont worry about it or talk to him or u suggest to turn the lights off xxx
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reader, Fiona xxx +, writes (2 May 2009):
 Have you tried with the lights off then?
I think being on top is more about the feel of it physically, rather than how you feel in terms of being self-conscious. Chances are he probably likes you on top, so try without a light on, then you don't have to think about being self-conscious.
Fiona
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