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writes:I'm in a new relationship with a female at college. not too long ago i broke up with someone. i'm not completely 100% over my ex however i havent said anything to this new girl. should i mention her? or is that a bad idea? or is the fact that im seeking another relationship even more stupid? i do like this girl. she has a wonderful personality and i do want to have sex with her. does that make me a slut?
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reader, Auntie Noodle +, writes (2 May 2009):
 I don't think it was a good idea to get involved in another relationship untill your over your ex as it isn't really fair upon the new girlfriend. Having said that you can't freak out the new girlfriend by telling her this so soon. If you feel the relationship getting serious perhaps you will have to broach the subject but as it is i would say give yourself some space to work your issues out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): Gosh don't tell her that you're not over your ex, that'dmake her really upset and break up with you silly. Ayways continue seeing her andhopefully in a month or so you'll forget about your ex because of this lovely sexy person
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reader, angel91 +, writes (2 May 2009):
you are not a slut for wanting sex. every1 has urges.
however, i think its a bad idea gettin into this relationship without being 100% over your ex. You'll compare the new relationship with the old one, and will not give the new girl all the attention she deserves.
Also, do not rush into sex with the new woman... make sure you've moved on before even thinking about getting intimate.
Sit down with your girlfriend, and explain how you feel. tell her you really like her, and still want to be with her, but you might need some time to get over your ex. Mayb she'd be able to help you.
hope all goes well :)
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