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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend is a naturally flirtacious person who likes to make people laugh.he has quite a few friends as girls. Some r ex girlfriends! He isnt trying to hid anything and is always honest that when he goes out he does get girls come upto him because of this! He tells me he loves me all the time and that im the best thing to happen to him. Hes had a womanising past and skept with quite a few women but since hes met me he says ive made him want to be a better person! Should i be worried bout the friends as girls. Or should i be proud to think they want him but he mine and he always comes back to me! Im paranoid i suppose as i think cos of his past he will go back to being like b4.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): I have been in a similar situation, gave the benefit of the doubt, trusted him for a long time then it became clear that he WAS sleeping with many of these women, lying about his whearabouts etc. Wanting to be a better person and being one are two different things! Men seem to find it hard to change this sort of behaviour, they have a need for the attention I think. He may love you, but be careful.
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reader, tina222  +, writes (2 May 2009):
Answer this..don't you have guy friends? Everyone has friends of the opposite sex. Sounds to me someone is jelous but i doesn't sound like you need to be worried because as long as he knows who his gf is then your ok. If a guy is honest with you than it usally means he's not hiding anything
Hope this helped!
Tina222
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reader, angel91 +, writes (2 May 2009):
he loves you, and he's yours. I wouldn't worry about these other girls, because they broke up for a reason...
Also, be proud that he's yours :)
It might help to talk things over with him, to help him understand how you're feeling. Maybe he will try to control his flirting
:)
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