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writes:Is this normal for me to feel this way about him?Is it normal to fall for a guy whom you have been chatting to for several months online with, only after one meeting, we have had a few disagreements and have been through a bit together, even though we haven't got together properly, i feel so drawn to him, sometimes I don't know where I stand with him, and this can lead to a bit of confusion, and this is where we have disagreements, he lives a bout a two hours away but he is training to go work on the oil rigs, I told him I would wait for him. But I think about him the morning, before bed and sometimes through the day, and not always in a sexual way, we text each other kisses, and we chat on the phone for hours... I am meant to be seeing him a week on saturday again, I told him I already feel like i'm falling, and he still wants to call and chat to me and just try and make me laugh for ages on the phone...Is it normal to feel this way after several months of texting phone calls and ims, and only meeting once? This is causing me a bit of stress but I do feel like i've fallen for himThanks people x
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reader, Purpleshoes84 +, writes (3 May 2009):
Purpleshoes84 is verified as being by the original poster of the question To the newest post, that sounds amazing, people give up so easy and throw love away, I was about to consider checking myself into a mental asylum (lol), providing that I can be a closed book when it comes to relationships and it takes a very special person to make me open up, I have this fright of feeling like i'm needy, but all I want is to see his lovely smile and make sure he's ok.
Thanks everyone for your different views, found them interesting and helpful :) x
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2009): Normal, i met my wife online while she was living in canada and i was in america.. we started a four year long distance relationship.. which basicaly involvd phone calls/im/msn/facebook/myspace . (it was on and off) but basicaly we fell in love the first day we met.. to be honest i fell in love with her the first time i saw her foto and more in love with her the more i got to know her.. but things worked out because we never gave up..
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): it's perfectly normal. Talking to people online can give you confidence, and knowing some1s interested makes u feel special.
however, even though you chat a lot, you need to be 100% sure that you're the only one he's talking to...its so easy to lie over the internet...
Good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): Dear normal,
I would say yes - its normal.
If you think about it, you are sharing the easier parts of life.
You aren't just doing the stupid things like shopping or driving together so everything is naturally rosey online and by text. factor in the excitement of a mystery person likes me and hey... honeymoon period before even meeting...wow.
but what does that mean? it means you haven't shared the shopping or watched as he gets annoyed in queue waiting. all you have principally done (real guess here) is a lot of shagging on the phone \ online . so calm yourself and see what he is really like.
As with all online relationship ask the question - am i the only one? is he genuine?
well done if he is the one - it does look like good signs though and although i have been negative in t his post, it is actually a good way in some ways of knowing someone first.
Star.x.
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