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writes:There's this girl I've really liked for a long time, and I'm pretty sure she likes me. However, she does this weird thing where she gets all flirtatious when I don't show that much interest in her, but when I try to show interest, she becomes a lot less flirty, but she still acts nice. Is she leading me on? should I still keep trying?
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reader, JesseRider23  +, writes (2 May 2009):
it sounds like you are being lead on... when you aren't flirty with her, she becomes irritated and wants you to flirt with her so she flirts with you more. however, when you do flirt with her, she thinks that you do like her, and is getting what she wants so she acts more conservative. it is also possible that when the flirting is mutual, she gets nervous because she doesn't want to say anything wrong. i think she likes you. if she saw you as a friend, she wouldn't be on/off like this, she would be more consistent. the fact she doesn't flirt with you sometimes shows that she is nervous. if i were you, i would ask her out somewhere casual like the movies/dinner/somewhere to hangout. you can get to know each other, and it will be a huge weight off your shoulder and her shoulders. if she says no, you're right back where you started
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): sounds like she's leading you on to me and just using you to boost her ego…like it really sounds like that…girls…esp. teen ones can be really selfish and malicious when it comes to boys
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reader, Main Man  +, writes (2 May 2009):
 There is only 1 way to find out if your being lead on. Ask out for a coffee & tell that you quite like her. If she doesn't feel the same about you doesn't mean that she has been leading you on. Try to be friends with her after your meeting who knows she might start to feel the same about at a later time.
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