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writes:I didnt love my girlfriend and i broke up.... I am sick of missing her now... after we broke up we decided to stay as friends but she seeked closure in that too so i decided to break all contacts and just ignored her. She used to be so concerned about me and nothing changed except those kisses and expressing loves. She made me feel closed and smothered in friendship though she was a person of morals and tried her best in giving space but she panicked out of losing me so she was helpless. I am sick at heart now and feel guilty for being so unfair to her and keep thinking how much love she had given me and what did she do to deserve it. I have struggled a lot to keep her away due to emotional attachment and have somehow succeeded in that. I miss her and wish to call her but I fear to ignite that spark again.I am going crazy and feel depressed, although I wouldnt have faked love, I miss every moment spent with her and miss her love and care a lot... it is so painful...
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): you hurt her by telling her you didnt love her. Then you kicked her when she was down by cutting of all contact.
She may already be getting over it, and it might make things complicated if you call her.
Im sorry, but you can't have your cake an eat it too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): You're not the only one in this situation mate. I was in just a 1.5 year relationship and we broke up. I miss her so much. I talk to other girls and try to get on with my life but it isnt the same. Its not easy either but time will eventually heal you. Be strong. If it helps (or if u can) try and think of the bad things about her so it can increase the negatives. take care goodluck.
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reader, ConfusedDazed  +, writes (2 May 2009):
 I just got out of a three year relationship and i secretly wish at times we were back together, but sometimes when fear is an issue you have to ask yourself is it worth it.
and i understand u miss her. i still hear songs, tv shows or movies that remind me of my ex. its not so much a forgetting game because that person has been a huge part of your life. I still care about my ex but it gets alot easier. But go with what ur gut feeling says if you want it to work and feel it can continue being a good relationsip for you both. go for it. xxxx
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