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writes:About a month ago I broke up with my boyfriend cuz I thought he was gay but then i found out that he wasent what should i do cuz as soon as i dumped him i got a NEW boyfriend and now he doesnt really talk to me, in fact i think he hates me, what should i do to help this...
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (2 May 2009):
 So, you called him gay, you dumped him and immidiatly humped another guy.
"in fact i think he hates me".
Duh, you think?
Apologize and leave him the hell alone. Should he be crazy enough to get back with you, it will be when he is ready, on his terms. I sure as hell wouldn't. Dumping him was already bad enough but immidiatly hooking up with someone else is to me a killer.
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reader, JesseRider23 +, writes (2 May 2009):
well you know you messed up and it seems to me like you still like him because you're getting into the situation. if you like him more than your new boyfriend, tell him that and see if he's interested in getting back together. sincerely apologize to him, because not apologizing for 2 months has got to feel horrible to him. tell him you were scared to apologize, but realize that it HAS TO BE DONE and want to know if he wants to get back together. there is no point in dragging on your current relationship if you still like the other guy. good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): You've got a new boyfriend DON'T DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): cuz? growl.
ok you arent into the second bf so yes dump him - you are wasting his time by pretending and you are into him, when you obviously aren't.
first one; mr not gay, - tell him you were wrong and your sorry then who knows what will happens.
star.x.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): you messed up big time…that's THE most insulting thing you could ever do to a guy…esp. your a boyfriend…actually i had questioned my own boyfriend before as well and had kind of joked w/ him about it…he's def. not gay though…anyways, i wouldn't try to be this guys' friend at this point, i would just give him an honest heartfelt apology and tell him that you're sorry and that you messed up
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