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writes:k well it all started when my ex-boyfriend...let's call him "Tom"....well anyway I loved Tom but I could see he was losing interest in me. He started hanging out with this other girl let's call her "Kelly". Kelly and Tom started hanging out more than me and Tom. About two weeks ago tom broke up with me. He told me that he had no feelings for Kelly, he was just not feeling it anymore. Mean while me and Kelly are close friends and she told me there was nothing between her and Tom. Tom knew I was hurt about the break up but about a week and a half after we broke up he asked Kelly out. Now Kelly and Tom are going out and I'm so hurt by it. Every time I see them together I feel so sick to my stomach. Tom asked her out on the day that u was away and my friend told me what happened later that night but I ignored him cause I didn't know what to say to him. Then finally today I talked to him. He told me he didn't know how to tell me about what happened and when I told him how upset I was all he said was I thought you would be happy for me. I was really mean to him while we were talking but honestly how could he so something like that to me? What can I do now? I hate hanging around him and I don't really want to talk to her cause she knew how I felt and still she went out with him. What can do?Someone please help me....what am I really feeling? What should u do next? :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for your help I really appreciate it :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): Hi, i am sorry to hear of your situation. It is understandable that you feel so hurt and angry right now. I think it would probably be for the best if you move on. He lied to you and so did she. They dont have much regard for how you feel so eliminate them from your life. It will be hard and it will take time to heal but you will benefit in the long run. There is someone better out there for you and you can find better friends. I hope you find your way. Goodluck!
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reader, malum424  +, writes (2 May 2009):
 Well the sad truth is there really isn't anything you can do about them as a couple, but you can cut them out of your life by not being around them. I feel you have every right for feeling hurt and betrayed by thier actions. The best thing I can tell you right now is to just give them space and let yourself heal, maybe with time you'll be able to forgive them.
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