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female
age
30-35,
*it-Kat
writes:i had a crush but he is too old for me (5 years older) so we thought (he loved me too) it was a good idea not to date until i was much older. my mum said it would be a good idea not to see him at all. i can understand why and im not angry at her at all but i feel so strongly about him. but i dont want to disobey my mumim so miserable and cant get over him at all. i feel so lonely like half of me is missing, and i cant seem to stop crying for ages. i feel so horrible and crushed. i had to delete his number so i have no way of contacting him. i feel crazy sometimes because i miss him so much. i cant feel like this for much longer before im depressed or do something drastic. he isn't allowed to contact me either and my and his friends dont see each other so im cut off him entirely. how can i get over him wen i feel this sad?thanks
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (3 May 2009):
No problem, glad I could help!
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Kit-Kat +, writes (3 May 2009):
Kit-Kat is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks a lot. he sent me a text saying that he will keep my number but wont contact me and wen im 17 he will contact me again, but he will try to go with other people right now and he suggested i should to. im never going to forget him but i feel happier that he understands the situation.
thank-u so much!!!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (3 May 2009):
You have to WANT to get over him.
Make a decision that you are not going to be sad anymore. Tell yourself in the mirror, write it down and stick it to your wall, facebook update about it.
Then put effort into not thinking about him and go out with your girl friends and have some fun.
Good Luck!! xx
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