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writes:Hi, So i live with my dad and step mom. My boyfriend and i have been together for 7 months and we have had sex. (both our 1st times). I want to tell my dad because i tell him everything, but im the only child so he's sometimes overbearing. But my dad and i have a trust relationship and i never lie to him about anything, so i want to tell him, but i dont know how.Does anyone have any ideas? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2009): I don't think you should tell him purely because you're getting older now ad are starting to have your own life you don't need to tell him everything anymore it's time that youe life is personal now and he will have to understand that. Did he tell you the first time he had sex with your step mum? probs not. Don't worry he's not stupid after a while he'll accept the fact you're growing up and he'll just know that you have you don't need to tell him he'll just..know.
Anyway if you're in a relationhip which I'm guessing is serious then you two need a private life that people don't know about things you share together. Your dad will know soon enough don't forget he was young once! =) x
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009): Don't tell him unless you wish to break his heart. Some thing are better not revealed. You might "feel" better about telling him but there is nothing to be gained and everything to lose. How a dad sees his daughters is quite different than how anyone else see a daughter. Of course, it also matters how old you and your partner are, although to a limited degree. My advice does not change. If very yound, you will really hurt him, if you are "of age" there is no need to tell him about such things.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo i figured the best way to tell him was to tell him i was thinking about having sex w. my bf. And i dod, and he took it well saying be safe and only i know when its right for me. So i figured id give it 2 weeks and tell him it happend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks, yes we use protection, and my bf is actually my nextdoor neighbor. lol. His family knows and are funny about it, his dad ignores it, his little sis is way to noisey, and his mom makes jokes about it. Im close with his family. My dad likes him and he ia 18, im 16....but you would never know that there was an age dif. Hes a great guy. Another issue is prom weekend. Neither me and my bf drink or hvae an intrest in it, and we are both close w. our parents. His parents said they would pay 4 us to go down the shore after prom....but idk how to ask my dad....i tell him everything and never lie. And i honestly dont drink or party.....i feel that you h=are who you hang out with, and even if you dont party but ur friends do, you are condiserd to party,....so thats not a prob...but still, i dont want to disappoint my dad and im scared if i tell him it'll be a dissapointment
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