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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:I'm young I will admit, I have been best friends with this guy as long as I can remember, I never really focused on it as anything other than a great friendship. One of my friends said " you 2 will be married one day". At the time I just smirked thinking how dumb she was for saying that! Ever since I got home from my vacation we hung out together once because he said he missed me for the month I was gone. Things have changed since I've been away, he is friends with this guy who does things that I don't approve of so I was concerned, I asked him about it and tonight we got into our first fight I broke down and started to cry especially because 2 nights ago I realized that I actually love him, after everything.. I don't want to spoil what we have. We've been friends for over 5 years, and losing him by telling him I love him will be my greatest loss and I would never get over it, he's always been there for me no matter what and will do anything to make me feel okay which are some of the things I love about him , ugh what do I do ?
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reader, Spazz in love +, writes (25 August 2009):
well it seems to me like your in a deep hole with out a ladder to climb out of but let me provide you with a rope lol ok your best friend does to care about you the way a relationship goes so maybe actually telling him you love him isnt such a bad idea after all if you find a way to ask him on the slide not you actually asking him yourself but get another friend to say something that will actually be able to show how he feels about you
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