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writes:This is my pathetic, sorry life story. pls dont ignore i need friends now more than ever.My mother has not been the one i always hope to have. All my life, she never corrects me calmly instead she yells, beat or she ignores me for long. i have 5 siblings and am the third, my junior brother, is very stubborn but sometyms, she talks to him politely when he goes wrong and she hides his faults from our father. my sisters too but not for me.My boyfriend keeps some of his money with me. last week, he had a problem that needed urgent money and it was late, around 12:30 am. he asked if he cud come get a little amount out of this money and i agreed and just as i opened the door to hand him the money, she came and got furious.i begged her and i was sorry and she reported me to my siblings then they said she shouldnt let my father know coz he wud be sad. but days later, she did. and he threw nasty words on me while she claimed she wasnt the one that told him, that a friend of his saw me when i was opening the door which is not possible. she hates my boyfriend and my dad too hates him for no reason but their selfish interest.She always throw nasty words at me too for instance, yesterday, she asked me "i want to know why you love this guy so much and you dont want to love my choice for you. or did he use u and u cant do without him?" i was divastated. i just looked at her with silence. the day before, she reported me to my dad that i am crying coz they told me they hate my boyfriend whom we were planning to get married to before december. the confusing part is they never hated him till the other guy showed up and showered money everywhere.they accused me falsely of visiting porn sites which every1 knows am more than that. i feel like i am not their childi have been living in hell for months, sometimes i wish i wasnt their child, i have a mark in my heart and i just needed to tell someone what is going on with me. i need prayers please. thanx everyone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2009): everything happened for a reason, and we don't know the reason why your parents are so "cruel" to you, we sometimes just can't do anything about it; first suggestion is to talk nicely and ask them why are they treating you that way; if they can't give a good answer then you have two choice;
1. stay with them and ignore what they say or do to you, but still act neutral to them ( i know it's hard but you can try)
2. try to get a job so you can support your self and after you can manage things, you might consider moving out..
act wisely and no need for rush things.. last but not least, pray to God and ask for His help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2009): As the other girls have said, move out, you're 22 it's time to leave this harsh environment x
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reader, shna  +, writes (25 August 2009):
 i suggest you leave home tell ur boyfriend see if you could live with him for a few weeks till you get yourself a job and somwhere to live you dont need people like this putting your confidence down family or not it isnt worth it . start a new life now or youll regret it x
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (25 August 2009):
 I got a job and moved away from home when I was 18. I suggest you do the same.
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