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male
age
36-40,
*fyoudontmind
writes:So, I think all males are kind of consumed in this inferiority complex when it comes to sex. I am no exception to that rule. My fiance is absolutely incredible, but I am unable to make her orgasm... There has been a few fluke instances, but nothing regular. Somebody help me! If the sex is bad, the relationship can lead to infidelity. Suggestions?
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reader, Pyroshadow +, writes (26 August 2009):
Some girls dont climax though vaginal penetration. Talk to her, see if she does. You can ask if she ever has (if your comfortabl know about her past) or you can ask if she can bring her self to that point alone. If she can im sure we can help you please your woman.The best way to try this is to perform oral sex on her. First make sure she is relax. Let her know there is no pressure for anything. Make her feel as special as she is. Let her know you just want her to feel good about herself and that it doesnt matter that if climaxs or not. You just want her to enjoy herself and show your love and affection for her.Use you tongue to lick her clitoris.... just before its very sentive. You would want to start by licking around it. Use one hand to spread her open a little bit. Lick around the sides to tease her. Almost all women love being teased. Once you have teased her and notice she is very moist and aroused you can then lick her clitoral hood. Once you start that see if she likes the tip of your tonuge agasint her clitoris. Some girls can take that much pressure. Insert ONE finger into her vagina. let your finger be kind of 'loose' and not really stiff. If she is laying on her back you want your palm to be facing upwards. once your finger in her fully. ( you want to go slow and smoothly as to not her hurt.) you can then see if you can insert another finger. It might be too much for her. If it is, slowly remove one finger. You then want to move you finger up and down agasint her inner wall really slowly. You will notice most of her inner vaginal walls are kind of smooth. your will find a small dip, in this dip her walls will be a little be softer more sponge like. You want to gentely apply pressure here. your mover finger in small circles and allow the pad of your finger to slowly slide along the sponge like area. if she likes it you will know trust me.Oral is something I am great at. if you have anymore questions, feel free to message me. Best of luck.PS. bad sex will not lead to infidelity. You can be ensure this by making sure you are very open. Express your feelings. Make sure she knows you love her. Sex gets better with time. You learn each more and it only gets better. Enjoy!
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reader, Sugarbuns  +, writes (26 August 2009):
 If you know where her Clitoris is, you should have no difficulty bringing her to a screaming climax if you know how to lick, stroke, flick or fondle that little baby. The problem may be her. Some women are self conscious about "letting go"; some aren't even in touch with their bodies enough to know that it's okay to enjoy sex. It's something she may have to work at. Relaxation is key. And try not to watch her like a bug under a microscope or she may feel like she's "on stage" and begin to feel uptight. Just let things happen naturally and hopefully she'll have a real good time. Best of luck.
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