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My boyfriend thinks it was ok for his friends to spike my drink!

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Question - (25 August 2009) 7 Answers - (Newest, 26 August 2009)
A female Australia, anonymous writes:

My bf's friends spiked my drink with alcohol. This really upset me because I dont drink. He thinks its ok that they spiked my drink. He doesnt understand why its upsetting and completely wrong. Why doesnt he understand?

I was sick for the next 3 days because of this.

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A female reader, aisforacting United States +, writes (26 August 2009):

aisforacting agony auntThat was horrible and disrespectful. He was being a jackass obviously!

I think he thought it was funny, but I completely disagree. I, myself, cant handle alcohol.

Tell him how you feel.

Goodluck darling!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2009):

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Why would i exaggerate? I was sick for 3 days. He forced me to drink the drinks after I found out they were spiked. He said I was an embarrasment if I didn't drink them.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2009):

sick for three days? just from alcohol?

bit of exagerration i think.

even a hang over from a binge only lasts 1 day.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (25 August 2009):

Honeypie agony auntI agree with Eyeswideopen..

Time to dump this fella, he does not respect you at all.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2009):

Giving someone something without their permission is wrong! It could be something as innocuous as peanuts, but if you have an allergy to peanuts, they could kill you.

Your boyfriend needs to grow up, he probably likes alcohol and was hoping that you would like it too so that you could drink together. The substance is not the point here however, it's the forcing of something without permission that's at issue here. He is probably just immature, but it is worrisome that he isn't looking out for your best interests.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2009):

Christ, but that would annoy me! Maybe he'll understand how you feel when you dump him, but if he's that stupid, he might not even understand then.

Dickheads like your boyfriend give Australia a bad name. Unfortunately the average young male can't accept that there are some of us who don't want to or need to drink.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (25 August 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntYour boyfriend is a dickhead, time to trade up Sweetie.

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