A
male
age
30-35,
*rdinaryrisktaker
writes:Hey guys I need help here.. I mean I been with my gf for like a month and a half I know it's not a long time but I been friends with her for a year. Anyway u know me and her play alot and joke around alot. But there's one specific joke I didn't like her legs we're hurting and whatnot and I asked why and her being all jokey and stuff just like me she's like guess u know I guessed alot and all we're wrong till me playing around I said u had sex? she's like yep but u know in a jokey way she's still a virgin and all... Normally stuff like this wouldn't bother me but idk I believe in her and all but uhm well this one got me... Idk what to do I mean everytime i'm with a girl and they play around like this and I get this unremovable feeling I always think that there's a breakup coming up or just well it makes me think that sometimes girls that joke this way are the cheating type and whatnot.. And well idk what to do I mean she still says she misses me and when I miss like one minute on msn cuz I gotta do something like cook clean etc etc she types to me back like she always does.. But u know I had this feeling for a while and stuff and this time well idk what to do.. Sorry for making this story soo long but I just have too much pride to admit that when she said that I worried and it sorta pissed me off... I mean after all this time I figured saying how I feel shows a sign of weakness she too feels the same way and she agreed that it does feel like that.. Anyway sorry once again for making the story long and stuff and plz give me advice I am in dire need of I just want to get rid of this eerie and hurtful feeling. Anyway please and thank you
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reader, ALLOVERIT +, writes (25 August 2009):
 it was a joke man that's it. you need to learn how to trust her if you want your relationship to work. yes, you may get your heart broke by trusting her, i wont lie, there is always a real possibility of that happening, but that's the sacrifice you make in order to love someone..and the sacrifice is worth it. if you do end up getting hurt, you'll survive.
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