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writes:I have been going with my guy for over a year to this day, but yet, I still feel worried about his crazy ex. Yes I know my guy would never cheat on me, but this "bitch" has tried everything in her power to break us up, and gain him back. The worst part is that whenever she does something, she usually has a friend help her out with is. So when the whole "plan" of hers goes off, my guy see's it as the othere person or friends doing. He feels that his ex can do no wrong, and has told me he kind of wishes that her and I were friends. Am I worrying over nothing? What should I do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionJust so you guys know, he's only asked me once, and later on he told me he understands ifwe are not friends.
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reader, rcn +, writes (25 August 2009):
 He needs to acknowledge your feelings. He's being disrespectful and inconsiderate of how you feel. Now, I have kids from a previous marriage. I'd never ask the love of my life to be friends with her. Maybe just not claw her eyes out when we exchange the kids, but that's about all I'd ask. And this gal being manipulative. Talk about being blind, or is he choosing not to see it? You don't have to be friends with anyone you choose not to, and don't let his request change that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2009): Play her game. Be extra sweet to her in front of your boyfriend - I know it would be hard and then she just might show her true manipulative side to your boyfriend. I must add I find that a strange request your BF wants you and the ex to be friends.
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reader, devastated2008 +, writes (25 August 2009):
 Well there is a saying "Keep your friends close, and your enemies closer."
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