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anonymous
writes: I have been friends with a man for about a year before i had any sensual relationship that lasted 2 months when he then decided to go back to his x, the mother of his 2 children.she wanted him back When she found out that he was moving on. Well she forbade us to even talk as friends, but he did everything to keep in touch with me, and we continued to talk and have sex. 6 months later his relationship is trash again ( it never was sturdy) she is a control freak and he knows this, but still won't just suck it up and cut his ties, he says its his kids, well his son,12, knows all about me and the fact that we are still close, his daughter only knows that we were friends.Any advise, A part of me want's to leave and just be friends, the other part of me has fallen hard for him. What to do?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2009): stop only blaing his ex.she is not the bitter one. you seem very bitter towards her, you are the intruder in her life. so please stop making excuses and lowering yourself. you know he has a family yet you continue to just be his f*ck buddy. it will be hard to move on, but you need to . you need to work on your self esteem and insecurities. this man will always be with his so called ex. they have kids together and he will never leave her not will she leave him. you are just the spare wheel for him but he will never commit to you. so please stop thinking his "ex" is the problem. this man is. he is using you both. and you both allow this. you can cut the ties with him easily. move on to better beacuse there are better decent men out there. his "ex" is not your enemy. he is. the sooner you realise this, the sooner your life can turn around. good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2009): He sounds stuck on the ex - move on. If he really loves you he will want to be with you and stop making excuses.
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