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writes:ok i know im only 14 and lots of people would say im to young to have a boyfriend but i dont think so. lots of my friends have had boyfriends and stuff but not me. there plenty of nice fella around but none of them seem 2 b intressed in me. is there something wrong? i dont think im pretty and this kind of make me feel worst about it. i have lots of friends from all around the world on my msn and most of the boys say im really pretty but i dont know what to think. when i go out with my friends and i c people holdin hand and stuff it makes me think is there something wrong with me? y dont i hav a boyfriend? will i even have one? can some one help me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2009): hi. there is nothing wrong with you! some people dont start having relationships until theyre well into their teens, im talking 17, 18.. thats not because anything is wrong with them, its just the way it is! and at 14, despite you saying youre not too young, it is quite a young age for a serious relationship.. i truely believe that EVERYONE is pretty and attractive in their own way, and someone out there will take notice of you as a person and like you for you. it is hard because as rainorfire pointed out, we are in a world that is constantly telling certain types of people that theyre not good enough, not slim enough, not tall enough.. everything seems to tell us we have to be like the girls on tv to be beautiful when in fact its aload of rubbish. trying to accept this isnt ever easy and if you feel insecure i know how that feels. but you are young and to be completely honest i doubt the "relationships" your friends have will last.. harsh but true. dont lose confidence, its one of the things guys like. always smile and be yourself. good luck, AAJ.
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (25 August 2009):
 There are ugly people and pretty people its a fact of life some would say thats shallow but its true. The thing is even the ugliest person may be attractive to someone. and as they say beauty is only skin deep. If you live long enough you will be wrinkled gray and bald.At 14 your just beginning to enter womanhood you have youth on your side and and you will for atleast another decade.We live n a world where super models and the planets most perfect looking people are plastered onto everymagazine cover and beamed into our tv sets women are led to feel they have to pile on pounds of makeup to cover everyblemish just to feel attractive,granted some do benefit from it.if you dont think your pretty stop comparing your self to the airbrushed and photoshoped girls n magazines.if you stll dont think your pretty well welcome to the jungle because your in with the majority of people on the planet that arent super gorgeous or have near flawless features.You say you want a BF i ask what are you dong to get one, i suggest putting down the mirror pck your self up and start asking some cute boys out
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reader, shelbyrayanne  +, writes (25 August 2009):
 Hi.
i know what its like not to have a boyfriend. i didnt have one intil i was 15. i think your problem is not being flirty enough, put your self out there take to boys as much as possible. what do you have to loose right? the right guy will come along. dont worry so much about it you have lots of time. just be yourself. guys can be really shy maybe try going on a group date with some friends tot he movies or something. :)
Hope i helped! good luck!!!!
-Shelby
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