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writes:I'm having trouble deciding on what to do here. If anyone could help me with some suggestions it would be much appreciated. I recently started a 3 way relationship and I am the 3rd person to join into an already 2 way, but my intentions were not to do this 3 way thing but to kinda win one of them over. There is unequal feelings between us and it's becoming painful for me, I am still only a few months into it but there are so many things that make me feel bad, but the big one is that he will only kiss his first partner with open lips, with me it is only ever a peck and when I do go for the tongue I get non-verbally shut down. I am not an evil person but I definitely don't have the same feelings for both of them, but I'm at a point now where I don't want to leave them but at the same time this is really tearing at me from inside. I'm not happy. Reply to this Question
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reader, Bearlover +, writes (30 September 2009):
Bearlover is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOK, i decided to stick with it for now because of how much ive become attatched to one of the guys in my triad.. and now i have another question, sorta. I know people will think im a bad person for thinking this, but i constantly have dreams and wishes of this turning into a 2 way relationship with the guy i want, i guess putting it roughly and straightforward, splitting them up. Its sort of a long story but there was some attraction issues between them as well as them both having the same sexual preference (being on the bottom) but yet theyve been together for 9 years! talk about the power of love, sheesh. I want to be with this guy more than ANYTHING but at the same time i feel like these two are ready to head to the grave together.. anyone? anything? any hope for me?
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reader, Sphronas +, writes (25 August 2009):
 This arrangement is clearly not working for you, so let it go. It may be painful at first, but not as painful as letting the situation continue to make you unhappy. You deserve love and respect and you are not getting it from these men. But somewhere, the right guy is waiting for you.
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