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writes:me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years and have a son together. i love him with all of my heart but he is very lazy and demanding. i want to be with him but he cant provide a stable enviornment for me and my son. i been talking to an old friend and he says that i should i do whats best for my son. i am falling for another guy and am confused. i want to stay with my boyfriend but i dont like the way he is treating me. what should i do??? Reply to this Question
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reader, Renee okc +, writes (26 August 2009):
What the hell do you mean what should you do, Kick that bum to the curb if he won't get off his layzi ass to provide for his own blood then really what do you need him for. Honey you are waiting for him to change while he is waiting for you to pay the bills. My baby daddy acts somewhat like him but he works but he is worried about himself first and he hasn't changed in two years I let his ass go because I don't need the drama and I am much happier. You have to set a example for your son and what kind of example is he providing laying on his butt all day why you try to hold it down. I bet you are falling for someone I would be too because the heart can only take so much before it just shuts down and it sounds like you are almost out of beats. You are feeling because you have been with him so long that you have to stay with him. Actually you leaving him might wake him up and get him busy he is too comfortable in your relationship and you apparently have made him that way. I am sure your family is also picking up the slack give them a break too. Dump that loser.
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