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writes: 0k.. I just started high school and i want an boyfriend but its too many Boys trying to talk to me at once. I am currently talking to 3 boys and i wanted to know if i am being "HOEISH" because i dont know who i want? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Renee okc +, writes (26 August 2009):
I don't think you are doing anything wrong as long as you are not having physical contact with these boys and you are thinking of dating one of them I don't see how you would think that was hoeish now if your fooling around or having sex with three dudes then yes you would be considered a whore. I advise you save your affection for the one you really like or even love. This is 2009 and a girl has to shop around to find the right one, but I am sure if all three knew what you were doing they may not like it so much be smart always
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reader, ALLOVERIT +, writes (26 August 2009):
it's only "hoeish" if you are "sleeping" with all these guys at the same time. If your just talking with them,and figuring out which one is best for you, then there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. GOOD LUCK. remember to never settle for less then what you deserve.
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reader, Ifyoudontmind +, writes (26 August 2009):
There is nothing promiscuous about talking to people, you have to realize which one is the better option. I would strongly advocate against sleeping with all of them.
No good will come from that
-IYDM
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reader, SugarCookie +, writes (26 August 2009):
You would be hoeish if you were sleeping with all of them. This is completely normal at your age as long as you are not having sex. You are talking to different boys learning what you like and don't like. It will help you know when you have met the right man to be with forever.
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reader, theboythatcriedhotgirlfriend +, writes (26 August 2009):
Nah homegirl, hoiesh wud be if you were dating all of em. Right now youre deciding between them which further proves your non-hoeishness because a true ho would just pick one at random.Just dnt lead them on because then you'll be labled a a tease which is a sub-category of hoeishness.
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