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male
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:My ex-girlfriend and I broke up just over ten years ago after a seven year relationship. I'll admit, I wasn't the nicest guy in the world. I did cheat on her and left her for other women several times throughout our relationship. Well, now I'm 42 and have become a bit of an alcoholic. She's 35 and married to a man she met two years before we started dating. They been married for eight years and have three kids. Another on the way.Two weeks ago, she agreed to go to lunch with me. We talked a lot of things over from the past. She is the only woman I've ever loved. And I can't believe she was patient enough to stay with me even when I went off drinking every weekend without her and coming home at 6AM having had sex with another woman the night before.I don't know how she did it.I'm just wondering if there will be another woman like that for me later? I'm not a monogamous guy. I like my women and I will have several more later on in life, but I want a girl I can come home to who will be there to deal with me then. Any ideas on how to another girl like that?
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reader, xanthic +, writes (25 August 2009):
 Are you serious? You clearly need to grow up, and learn to respect women enough to stop indulging in your immaturity and selfish attitude. The worst part is you sound completely unapologetic, and seem to think treating another human being that way is perfectly all right. That sort of behaviour is for teenagers that lack common sense. I doubt you'd stick around for long if the situation was reversed and someone treated you in such a way.
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reader, Kalyov +, writes (25 August 2009):
 you just need to buckle down and straighten up
you cant been the 21 year old player your whole life
you need to stop and look at yourself and your life
find a girl and stick with her
stop your fooling around
you will NEVER find a woman who is okay with it
she might pretend to be but inside she will always be hurting!
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (25 August 2009):
 Wow. You just opened yourself up for a whole host of judgmental responses.
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