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female
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30-35,
*itkat_90
writes:Hey,I need help!! I went to college with a guy for 2 yrs we've left now but I liked him for 2 yrs and I told him several times.Christmas 08 and i gave him a xmas pressie when dropping him home one night after college he thanked me and hugged me and we shared a hug for a few minutes before I pulled away, then he said bye and went indoors, but by the end of Jan he told he how he felt, and that he liked me as well, he also told me he was close to kissing me that night in the car, but didn't because I pulled away. On and off we had these confessions, and he kept telling me nothing could happen at college, which I accepted, then, a few months before we left college I asked him whether something would happen once we left, he said he was unsure, and we had a massive argument, then we made up a few weeks before the end of college, and then we left, I didn't see or hear from him, but then beginning of this month I see him at a party, and in the true style of him, he texted me across the room saying "you look lovely" and was flirting again with me, i told him he should come and talk to me, and when he did we had a good chat, next to each other, he even offered to buy me a drink, and go to the pub afterwards with him, his friend, me and mine. When we returned to inside the party he came and sat down next to me on a sofa, and when he was going i got a kiss on the cheek. I've never stopped feeling something for him, and I can see through the act he puts on in front of his friends; but should I keep holding on or is it time to move on?! Do you think he ever cared?!
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reader, Ifyoudontmind  +, writes (26 August 2009):
It sounds like he is caught in between something at the moment. Maybe he has a girl on the sidelines , some back burner scenario. Or maybe he is simply afraid of something evolving with you.
Play it out in black and white, express you want to be with him plan and simple. If he still plays, "Im not sure" or something to that effect, its time to surrender and move on.
-IYDM
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