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writes:Okay this is kind of two questions in one, but bare with me. First of all I'm in a relationship with a guy who's 4 years older than me (I'm 15, he's 19) but I met him because he's my best friend's brother, so I got to know him around his family, so I know he's genuine and I can trust him.Okay first question, when I finally do decide to give myself to him (I don't want to yet as I feel we haven't been together long enough, and he respects that and feels the same) do you guys prefer a girl to be cleanly shaven (just an expression) downstairs or just tidied up?And secondly, I'm just curious about this one, which do you guys find more sexy, thongs/g-strings or french knickers? Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2009): Being a girl I have found that a short trim is really nice with the lower portion bare. As for thong or panty, I let the outerwear dictate what I wear under. If in a dress that is between mid-thigh and knee I will frequently wear a thong or nothing at all. If dress is shorter then I wear boy shorts, see thru of course, and similar shade as dress. Under pants I usually wear high cut french panty. If I'm with a guy for the first or second time, I will tell him when I am without panty to get his reaction.
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reader, theboythatcriedhotgirlfriend +, writes (26 August 2009):
 Thong. Personally i dnt think you shud care which a guy prefers cos hes lucky to be there. But like anonynomus sed we teen bois luv thong and ass...perfect recipe...thats too explicit huh? sorry
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2009): I think you should wait until its legal so he doesn't go to jail.
But if you must know, bare essentials is everything. Its not the fundies, its what's inside the woman that counts.
In other words, as a guy, I am attracted to WHO you are rather than what specifically you look like. Good looks fade. But the woman inside is of utmost importance to me.
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reader, Fatherly Advice  +, writes (25 August 2009):
 I read somewhere that women prefer boxers on men. I'm not sure how accurate that was as no survey was cited. It could just be the writers opinion. In the Latest "Get Smart" movie there is a very funny scene on the topic. One thing I do know is that when a girl asks you, "boxers or briefs?" Never answer, "Depends". I just can't get serious about this. So is it o k to ask in return, "Tap pants, briefs, high cuts, bikinis, or thongs?" In reality guys are all about comfort. Which is why we wear cotton, and don't wear thongs. In general that is. About panties (knickers), most guys will agree that they aren't the best thing in the world, but right next to it.
As for serious advice. If you want to give your guy a nice show, buy a panty/bra set that matches. Very artistic, and he will know you set it up for him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2009): Bare with you? I'd probably get arrested for that at your age.
But to answer the question - tidied up is nicest with no stray 'clocksprings' hanging out, shaved right off is bloody uncomfortable and prickly unless you shaved half an hour before, and whether to wear knickers, a 'g' string or a thong it's all according to the size of your arse. With regard to the amount of material required, the bigger the arse, the more it needs covering up, the smaller the arse, the less you can get away with. The sexiest though, is to whisper in his ear "I'm not wearing any knickers" when out in public. Not recommended in winter though.
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reader, xstx +, writes (25 August 2009):
xstx is verified as being by the original poster of the questionGreat advice thanks so much!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2009): hey im 14 and iv found that i prefer thongs because they show more ass and look damn sexy. while with ur downstairs me my self prefer clean shaven but aslong as its not completely out of control most guys arnt fussy! 1 that alot of guys like is the strip... a line of pubic hair about a inch long from the top of your vagina...looks good
good look :D
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (25 August 2009):
 While I am not a guy, I have enough experience to be able to give you some ideas about what men find sexy!
First of all, the whole shaven vs hair issue - most men dont really care unless it was a wild bush! Just give it a trim and make sure it is not out of control and that should be fine. Having it waxed or shaving is pretty painful and will leave your skin looking bumpy for a while (especially if you shave) so it is best just to give it a good old tidy!
As for your second question - I reckon you will find that about 50% of men like thongs, and 50% like french knickers. It is a very personal choice so your best bet is to find out what your boyfriend likes best! Take him shopping with you and pop into an underwear store and pick up a thong that you like and some french knickers you like - ask him what he likes best and bingo, you have your answer! Or if you cant be bothered to go shopping just come right out and ask him what he prefers! I bet that he would fancy you no matter what underwear you had on so just go with what you feel comfy and sexy in - there is nothing worse than a girl in a thong who is not comfortable and spends her time readjusting it! Confidence is sexy - so if you feel confident in something then wear it and your boyfriend will love it!
I hope this helps and well done for waiting! Make sure you use protection when you do decide to have sex - now would be the time to get the pill sorted before you do go any further!
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reader, greg290352 +, writes (25 August 2009):
 No right or wrong answer to these questions. Some guys like shaved and some like the natural look. Equally some like knickers and some prefer thongs. You need to find out what your guy[s] like. :-) The trend now is for clean shaven and thongs but many guys prefer the opposite.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2009): Personally I find French Knickers sexy ..because it leaves more to the imagination, just like very tight jeans etc... - Alot of guys I know prefer this as well.
However, it will depend on the guy - we're not all the same; some will prefer thongs
For me Shaved is better - its more inviting than if there is any 'fluff' down there.
However, once again ...guys differ.
My girlfriend of two years, alternates between a thin landing strip and completely shaved - I love her, so i dont mind - its all about her being comfortable, because if she's not - she finds it hard to orgasm ...if she is she has multiples...;-)
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