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writes:A married guy had an affair but was so much wrecked with guilt when he felt that his wife was cheating on him. (It turned out that his wife was not having an affair) that he ended his affair very abruptly as the situation was an eye opener for him and he realised how much he truly loved her. He ended the affair abruptly for fear of losing his marriage and family etc. Do you think he will remain faithful from now on or go back to the person with whom he was having the affair when his comfort level returns?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2009): if you are the other woman please do not wait for him.
if you are the wife then some major communication needs to take place.
either way he is the cheating rat and has gotten away with murder.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (26 August 2009):
 Who knows? There's no rule of thumb! Some guys might have the fear of God whipped into them after such an incident and others are serial cheaters who are just always trying to get something. So, anyone would be just hazarding a guess. If I was to go there, I think he was only cheating to shore himself up because he thought that SHE was cheating, but he truly loves her. If that's true, then I think his cheating days are over, because he is with the person that he loves.
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reader, Tomuchlove  +, writes (26 August 2009):
I have been cheating and felt exactly the same way as he does that doesnt mean I am rite but I think you already know the answer to the question. I have been on both ends of this but I think if you truly love someone you could never hurt them in this way no matter what. Ask yourself why you have never done it to him? this might give you the answer. Maybe I am wrong but I have now found the one and could never hurt her in this way though she prob will me and thats what I deserve.
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