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male
age
41-50,
*ick_of_ex
writes:I split up with my girlfriend of two years four months ago, I moved out but was unable to remove my property from her house for a while. Last week I organised a day to go over and collect my stuff after I finish work which was not particularly convenient for me. I had been up since five in the morning and had done a twelve hour shift. As I was driving to hers she sent me a text stating that her new partner was at her house. I replied and said that I would not go in while he was there, she called me and agreed that he would leave while I collected my stuff. I feel that this was totally inappropriate of her and wondered what people thought and if they themselves have had similar experiences.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (2 June 2008):
 As long as you got your property then just put it behind you. Sounds like she has moved on and so must you. Keep your chin up, Buddy.
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reader, sick_of_ex +, writes (2 June 2008):
sick_of_ex is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'll tell you why it was inappropriate, I had organised this earlier in the week and she knew I was coming over. Her new partner does not live with her so I think it is inappropriate that she invited him over knowing that I was coming to collect my stuff. Plus she only bothered to send me a text when I was just around the corner.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (2 June 2008):
Why was it inappropriate? She just did what you said so you could get your stuff. What did you expect?
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