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*ngelapembroke
writes:He was my best friend in primary school. We looked out for each other as we were both bullied, and we supported each other through our turbulent childhoods. He is two years older and he left for secondry school. I still remember running down the corridor to hold him. Ten years ago we met up as teenagers and were soon going out. We were together for two years when he made a play for my best friend. He didnt get very far and i promptly stopped seeing him. It took years to get over and i did eventually forgive him, after all we were just teenagers! Now im 24 ive found him on friends reunited and weve met and we kissed. Id love to do more but im scared it will ruin a chance for our childhood friendship to return. Is this a chance for romance, can i trust him again? I do really love him, but im scared of being hurt. Please help.
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reader, angelapembroke +, writes (4 June 2008):
angelapembroke is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your help, I do think it might inhibit our friendship, itl just feel so good to hold him again. He has shown alot of remorse for the past, when we spoke of it when we first met up i was crying and he had tears in his eyes and said sorry. I think we may be better as friends, at least for now. Thankyou for taking the time to help me! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2008): If you sleep with him it could well ruin your chance for friendship the way you used to be, which is more important to you?
He was young... But did he expressed that he is sorry? Has he said that he would never do that to you again? Has he ever shown any remorse for what he did?
If no... Then I wouldn't trust him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2008): Personally if i was you i wouldnt do it, but hey the choice is yours and you have to make it yourself.
take care
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reader, toggs +, writes (2 June 2008):
 hi as you said you were both young so im sure you can forgive him this time im also sure the time you been apart he done a lot of growing up. however if you value friendship more then dont go down that road. the choice is yours
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