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writes:okay well the thing is like this, i have a very good friend (sarah) who is obsessed with his best friend (Kyle).BUT. the other day we went out for dinner and Kyle was very VERY flirty with me. Now my problem is that i feel attracted to him and i really like him but i dont know what to do with Sarah, because she loves him! i obviously dont want to hurt her because she is my friend :) but i dont want to say goodbye to a really cute and awsome guy that likes me back. What can i do with my friend? Do i talk to him? or her? please help :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni forgot to tell you
my friend is secretly in love with him
and she doesnt want to do anything about it because
she knows he doesnt feel the same way.
Right know they are both best friends and i'm afraid he might talk about me with her =(
i really like this guy, but i guess you are right :(
i will think in my friend first and i'll forget him.
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reader, robynnex  +, writes (2 June 2008):
 my best friend stole i guy i loved of me when we were drunk one night, and i can honestly say i hate her.
even if you do like this guy every girl knows that you dont go anywhere near a guy your best friends likes/ loves was there ex or whatever.
you just dont do it.
and i would advise you not to flirt with him infront of her because you dont realise how much it hurts.
not to be nasty but it really does hurt.
do the right thing and dont hurt her shes your best friend
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reader, paradise  +, writes (2 June 2008):
 If you really want to find out where you stand with him as well as not betray Sarah, then back off completely, go about your own business and stay out of the picture. If he really wants you then he will pursue you; if not, then best you find out now so you don't get hurt later - and it will keep you out of the triangle. Good luck!
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reader, anon40 +, writes (2 June 2008):
I would do nothing. You should consider your friend's feelings first and foremost. The fact that he was flirty with you, in front of her, when he must be aware of how she feels about him, makes him not a nice person.
Things may take their course naturally, and your friend may in time turn her attention elsewhere. Then if things were meant to be between you and him, you are both free to act on your feelings.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (2 June 2008):
 Which is more important to you ,him or her?
If you select him , then you will lose her.
If you select her then you ought to give her a chance to bite at the cake first.
If she failed , then it is your chance.
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