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writes:Hello, well basicly im starting to feel attracted to my best friend, only recently ive realised she would be an absolutely perfect girlfriend, i cant think of 1 fault, i know she liked me in the past do you think it might be worth a shot? We have a lovey dovey friendship and have for sometime but not sure weather i should take the leap and go for it? thanks in advance
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reader, Oceania  +, writes (2 June 2008):
 okay well i would advise you to first give her some hints, try to be a little flirty with her, lets see how she reacts. You dont want to ruin your friendship, so play it save for now, until you get a good sign that she likes you back you can go for it :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2008): I am in the EXACT same situation as you.except my best friend is a guy.give it a chance..if she liked you in the past,there's a chance she still has feelings for you.let her know..or you'll always wonder why..best of luck to you..xxoo
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reader, lotus mama808  +, writes (2 June 2008):
 In this situation, I always suggest not making a complete leap, only little steps at first. Drop hints, and look for signs that make it possible. If you get a positive sign, take your next hint a step further, if you get a negative sign, step it back. This will help you determine if she is on the same page, or possibly could be. It will also help keep your friendship in tact with no akwardness, which is important. Start small. Never just drop the bomb, because you 2 are best friends, and you dont want to risk that. Good luck, keep us updated!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2008): I think you should.U already act flirty with eachother.Ask
her and if she says no,then move on.She'll probably realize
she made a mistake later on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2008): Thats a hard line to cross. Once you go there you may not be able to go back if she rejects your feelings and just wants to be friends. I would feel her out on it and drop a few hints before I just came out and said, "I love you." good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2008): Thats a hard line to cross. Once you go there you may not be able to go back if she rejects your feelings and just wants to be friends. I would feel her out on it and drop a few hints before I just came out and said, "I love you." goood luck
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