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writes:Ok hey!! basically theres this lad i like and me and some mates were sure he liked me to. he used to constantly stare at me, he seemed different with me in general but thing is numerous times he had mentioned he can't be doing with gf's and that he'll probably never get one. Now because he;d been showing so mnay sings that he liked me and also signs that apprently you can't decribe, its like uo can sense by the way the are acting sorta secretly type thing that you can tell someone likes someone else. Well cuz of this a mate of mind trid to find out if he liked me but it didnt go to plan and he just ended up asking him what do you think of her? he never said do you have feelings for her but this lad just assumed that and he said the thing is i don't have feelings for her. So when we knew that i said its ok for you to tell him i like him, so he did and at the end he said don't worry i won't tell anyone but to be honest i won't go out with her because i'm choosing to stay single. Now even thought that weas said he still shows signs and some of them were extremely strong!! I also remember two people in our class looking over at us once and one of them said something and then the other said oh i know what your on about, two people that like each other, and then i heard something to the effect of nothing can be done and something to do wiv a boyfriend or gf and they were lookign at us the whole time. Both me and this lad are single so i'm wondering if they were saying then because he desnt want a gf. So i'm wondring if he does like me and its just the fact that he wants to stay single thats holding him back will it ever change? Do you think that maybe eventually he will decide he doesnt want to stay single and becasue he does have feelings for me he will want to go out with me? Surely if he did have feelings for me he would want to although i can see why he'd want to stay single so is there any possibility that maybe oneday he would chnage his mind? I'm mainly asking becasue its coming to the end of the year and we have a really long holiday and then we're back for one more year so even if he was more likely to tell me at the end of the year? i dunno theres alot more to him after everything thats happened so do you think he would ever chnage his mind about staying single? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2008): have you ever asked why he wants to stay single? alot of people try to wait for the right one so if u really like him try and show him youd be good together
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