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*'mheretohelpyou
writes:Ok, hi...well. I really like this boy, his names Brian, he's cute, funny, has beautiful eyes and is just wonderful. I wanna know if he likes me. In 6th grade we were in the same class but now in 7th grade were not (that sucks). He stares at me alot and one time when he was staring at me, I stared at him and he looked away. One other time when his class and my class went on a bowling trip, my friend Brianna won a whole bunch of teddybears and I went to sit down with my other friends and she came to me and told me that he took them. I smiled and was like, "where is he, where is he". So I went over to him and said, "So you took my friend's teddybears, munchkin." (he's so much shorter than me,yet he's older than me) I pushed he into a locker and he said with a cute cry like a baby ooch and than I walked away. He called his friend and said she's bothering me, like a baby, and his friend, which my friend Brianna likes, took his Brian's hand and hit me with it and than a hit him in his cute little tummy, but not hard (I would never want to hurt him). That was the best day of my life!!!(not really) Does he like me? Do I love him cause I don't know. I think about him all the time and sometimes I don't like to go to school but I know that if he does something I'll miss it so....yeah, I'm sprung. We have lots in common: He's black, I'm black, lol. He has beautiful, brown, weird shaped eyes, I also have beautiful, brown, weird shaped eyes. I'm a Pisces, he's a Pisces. But he is waaaaay shorter than me. I'm tall(5'7 and 13, born march 12)He's short (5'0 and 13, born march 8) Help!!!! And in 6th grade he asked out this girl who was shorter than me but taller than him and she turned him down because of his height. Do you think that if he likes me, he won't ask me out because of that. He's popular, outgoing, beautiful, how do I tell him all this? How do I let him know just how much I like him without him thinking I'm CRAZY?!?!?!? I just can't control my feelings when I'm around him. I always smile, do you think if I say something to him and he thinks I'm annoying him, he'll just say, "Leave me alone and I don't like you!!!" (he's nice but even the nicest people get pissed off sometimes )I have never had a rejection and cannot accept rejection!!! Sorry for venting so much, anyway help me. I think I'm in LOVE with him but is that possible when we don't talk that much. And if we were like the best of friends would it be easier to be around him. HELP ME!!!!! thank you, have a nice day. And also on the last day of school in 6th grade, my friend said loudly who wants to take a picture with me and he said come on everybody let's take a picture with her(not like he was pitying me, he's nice like that). He held my hand in that photo, just grabbed it and I was smiling like a catfish. Do you think he just did that to make me smile or what? Sorry, bye and please, please, please help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2008): TALK TO HIM WOMEN...JUST TALK TO HIM!!!!!!
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reader, I'mheretohelpyou +, writes (3 June 2008):
I'mheretohelpyou is verified as being by the original poster of the question WOW, thanks but I can't just say hey, i like you and I don't know if he has brother or sisters and I've never seen his parents, so I really don't know. But his fingers are kinda of long.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2008): Just talk to him more and see what sparks are there. You obviously like him. Trust me. Dont let fear of being rejected get in your way. It sounds like he feels the same way you do. He was rejected and doesnt want to feel that way again. Maybe he wants to ask you out but is affraid you will say no too. Just be bold and say, "hey, I like you."
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (2 June 2008):
 ...ah... puppy love...
Sorry -- I'm back now :) OK, just a few things. Do I think you're in love with him. Probably not. Do you like him a lot... probably so. I reserve the use of the word "love" for something a little further down the road like dating for some amount of time where a deeper friendship grows into a whole array of different emotions that can be summed up in the word "love"... but that takes time to develop.
Next, on behalf of all short young boys everywhere, watch out. He may be shorter than you, but come high school, he's going to tower over you (especially if he has "tall genes" in his family)... does he have an older brother and is he tall? What about his parents? Does he have long fingers? If any of these are true, just remember I told you now... realistically speaking, boys hit their growth spurt later than girls. If you want to insure he grows, just keep feeding him milk and step back ;)
So, if you're interested in starting something with Brian, go for it!
Good luck!
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