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writes:okai my friend invited me to her house party i said sure so that night i went.they were all drinking and my friend told me 2 take a lil so i did juz that little got me on it i got really but really drunk and the only thing i remember was a dude taking me 2 a room but he didnt look drunk and so the next day he comes 2 me and sayz thnx fo the night i juz get shocked and start crying but i lived 6 weeks past then i told my friend what happen she told me to take a pregnacy test ! so i took 1 and i came postive and now i dont know what 2 do help help help help!!!!!!
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reader, cute angel  +, writes (3 June 2008):
 ahhh first thing u should sew the guy for having sex with u without ur consent and knowing..secondly u have to tell your parents about it..only they can give u the best advise now..and for nxt time be careful!!there are a lot of people waiting to pounce just by a single mistake done by us!!u wouldnt want that right!
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (3 June 2008):
 Lotus mama is so right here, you need to talk to your parents. And the sooner the better, so you can start to deal with what has happened. And make sure that your friend tells you who this guy is, so that this can be dealt with as well.
I'm so sorry to hear about this happening to you, but the only thing to do know is to tell people who can help you deal with it, and I think going to your parents is a good start.
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reader, lotus mama808 +, writes (3 June 2008):
 Go to your parents. Sounds nuts, but now that the deed is done, there isnt much punishing they can do. Anyway, this is not something you can hide forever, and you will need their help on figuring out what your plan is gonna be. You have to decide on wether or not your going to abord, put up for adoption ar keep this baby. The next step will be to see an OBGYN. They are docters for the female parts. They take care of you, answer questions, and make sure you are in good health. Also, you need to find this guy and let him know. He is OBLIGATED to help you. Financially anyway, and if he is a good guy, emotionally as well. Do you know him?
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reader, Fiona xxx  +, writes (3 June 2008):
 Aww I really feel for you! Do I assume you really didn't remember it? Do I assume you have no contact with the guy, and no phone number? Just assuming it was a one night stand.
I hate to say it, but in that situation, I would have got the morning after pill, which I did once when things happened faster than I expected.
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reader, PurplePayne +, writes (2 June 2008):
It seems like you're in quite a mess. Firstly do you know who the guy is? Have you seen him since? have you told him? You will also need to tell your parents and I know that might seem like the scariest thing in the world but they are going to be the ones helping you out if you decide to have this baby. You need to speak to your doctor and go through your options. Obviously you didn't intend to have sex and get pregnant but I hope this shows you how easy it is and that it only takes one time. be more careful in future and at your age you shouldn't have been drinking at all!
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