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writes:HiI dont know y he treats me like hell. He says that he loves me but I can never beliv him because in my opinion a man will never have sex with another woman while being married to a woman he loved so much( as he says so).He had sex with different women(Its a rumor).Once he was caught having sex with a woman who was married too.Some ppl took pictures and released them to the public.This made ppl talk more about him.After this incident I never believe he loves me.We r in the marriage and have kids too but aren't in a happy marriage.I am with him just because i love my kids and cant make them suffer due to the seaparation.I just want to get out from him.Coz he abuses me and hurts me alot.Just now he pinched me so hard and is still bleeding.I dont want to get hurted like this.My parents and family loves me so much but they never said anything to him about hitting me.Tonight he took me to an uninhabited Island nearby, on motor bike and threatened me.I did not argue and i agreed to all he said.I just dont know wat to do.He always threatens me saying he would kill himself or take the kids away or something like that.please help me.Please help me.Please tell me should I stay with him for the kids or should I leave him or runaway?
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reader, LIERIN  +, writes (3 June 2008):
 LEAVE NOW!He is just threatning you. He wont kill himself. He knows that he has a complete power over you and the kids. You have to leave. He wont stop cheating on you and abusing you! You have to do something now, before he starts doing the same to your children, its just a matter of time! You don't deserve this.ANd yes, you are right. No one (male or female) can have sex with another person while in a relationship (serious gf,bf, fiance or marriage). There is no excuse for anyone! He obvioulsy doesn't care about you at all and NO he DOES NOT love you!!!! He is lying to keep yu areound, to do the laudnry and dinners and comfort him whenever he feels like it!!YOu have to think about youself and your children before its too latePlease leave!
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reader, Star_07 +, writes (2 June 2008):
 LEAVE!
It is never good to stay with someone for the kids, especially in an abusive relationship. Do you have somewhere to go that is safe?
If you do, figure out what times of day he is gone. While he is gone, pack a few things for you and the kids and leave to a friend/family members house or shelter where you can be safe.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2008): I feel so sorry about the situation that you're dealing. You seem to be a nice and caring mother who truly loves her kids. I would say that you leave this relationship before he hurts you again. You need to fight back and tell your husband that you want a divorce and you're taking full custody of your children. You need to also call the police and have him arrested and put in jail. He's nothing more than a A@#hole and you deserved a better man than him.
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