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writes:Other than in person, this guy I am kinda seeing and I mainly communicate via e-mail because he doesn't like talking on the phone. Our e-mails used to be a lot more flirty but the last 2 or so were short and not flirty at all. I'd like to get it back to the flirty e-mails but how do I initiate that? How do I create an e-mail that sounds flirty? What should I say? I know it might be difficult since you don't know either of us but any guidance and suggestions would be helpful.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (4 June 2008):
 Hi again,
yeah sure, some people just arent phone people , I guess it is not that uncommon. Sorry if I put some thoughts into your head...oopsie.
Anyway, I'd just cut and paste Ms Strict's little email if I were you - but try and come up with something yourself, practice makes perfect!
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTo Collaroy,
I think he's just not a phone person or he doesn't want to get too serious. He's definitely not married. I've been to his place a few times. I guess some people just aren't phone people?
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reader, Susan Strict  +, writes (2 June 2008):
 Innuendo is good. You don’t have to be quite as blunt as Mae West’s infamous line “Is that a gun in your pocket, or are you just happy to see me?”
See if there’s anything in this (perfectly innocent!!) e-mail that you could use - but some of it may be “UK-only” and I’m not sure whether it would all work in the USA.
Hi [insert boyfriend’s name here]
I haven’t had an e-mail from you for a while, so I thought I would give you one and then perhaps you can reply and give me one too. I’ve had a lovely day, doing all sorts of bits. I thought about you and your bits too. Were you doing much? Perhaps we can meet up again soon. I could come over to you, or maybe you could come here. I’d like you to come here.
Actually, it would be nice to see you face to face. There are a few things I’d like to get off my chest and make a clean breast of it. It’s so much better when those things are out in the open, don’t you think? It saves so much fiddling around and fumbling to get things right. It’s nothing serious. Just a couple of points I’d like you to go over.
Anyway, we don’t have to discuss anything important. We can just talk about the first thing that comes up or have a drink or two. A strong Jack Daniels would be perfect. I like a stiff one. We don’t have to be rigid about our friendship, but I always think it helps to know exactly what goes where. It’s so much nicer when everything fits properly; no pebble unturned and no hole unfilled. If it doesn’t work perfectly then a bit of tweaking should sort it out, and you don’t need to worry because I’m quite good at handling that sort of thing. I promise I won’t rub you up the wrong way.
Why don’t you come round tomorrow? The weather forecast says it’s going to be wet and I think they might be right.
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reader, Collaroy +, writes (2 June 2008):
Hi,
innuendo, innuendo and more innuendo. Lots of sexual innuendo is the way to go. The cornier the better.
i.e. if he says " I need to fill the tank before coming round" you can say "you can fill my tank any day baby"
Look for a word in a sentence that can have many meanings, usually you can pick one that will have a sexual overtone. Go from there!
p.s. just something else, why doesnt he want to talk, I hope you realise he may be married if he doesnt want you to call him at home.. Just thought I'd mention that mate.
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2008): aks him out to the movies ....say
"Hey stud .movie tonight? there will be a jumbo popcorn with your name on it !"
somehting like that should do the trick
adding stud will make it flirty but not too much and leave it open for him to continue the flirting and it asks him out on a date :D
I hope this helped :D
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reader, batfink +, writes (2 June 2008):
I think you need to give us a lot more detail hun. I have no starting point here on which to give advice. You can contact me personalle if you like.
BF xx
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